The Solutions for Christian Who Find Themself May be Bisexual

When it comes to the questions about sexual orientation,a christian will always tell you that heterosexuality is God's will.But the fact is that you can find a lot of bisexual men and bisexual women, and according to scientific analysis, their appearance is more natural and not disturbed by acquired factors.In today’s America,bisexual people are generally accepted.But in many strict

christian families,how could you dare to say that you are bisexual,whatsmore you are even have no thought about that.Then here comes a question:what if you find yourself a bisexual guy while you are a christian too.

This problem has been divided into two tributaries.First,abandon your beliefs and ignore the comments of your family and friends around you.You would think that God created me like this, and I should follow my nature to free myself.Second,Hide your sexual orientation, tell no one, suppress your inner desires, and tell yourself that it is the temptation of the devil.Whatever which way you choose to go,you will face unimaginable challenges all your life,and have far-reaching consequences.

1.Publish facts

This should be the most intense way, and you will no doubt be questioned by your family. If you're still a student who needs support from your parents, then you're likely to face financial sanctions. None of this is as bad as breaking up with your family, and you can hardly accept losing your parents' support and love on a certain day. Although you choose your reality, in the Christian family environment, you also have to face the torture of inner faith. But there must be some benefits. You no longer have to suppress your inner desires and go to bisexual dating sites to find bisexual friends. You lack a lot of religious restrictions.

2.Keep your secret

You can think that nothing has happened, so everything around you will not change. The only problem, of course, is that you have to put up with the kind of people you see who you like, but you can't say and no one can share your woes. And the words of the Bible you know will tell you in your mind "what you think is a sin".

In this way, it seems that anyone who meets this predicament seems to be suffering whatever he chooses. As far as I know, there is a compromise. A clear violation of your beliefs is not desirable, but you can find a bisexual dating website in private to find your bisexual friends. You can tell him about your situation, you can say you just want to find a kind of bisexual spiritual comfort, and I'm sure you can get his understanding. Change your mind, you will find things are not so bad, many problems that people encounter are just poor communication. Spiritual satisfaction is more important to a person who has Christian faith than to be physically, even if you love that person and treat him as a close friend, better than a lover to you.