Here’s Some New Ideas about Bisexuality
People don’t choose gay , straight or bisexual, but that doesn’t mean that sometimes we don’t fade out of one identity and go into another.Just like the expectation of single bi women who want to act as a lesbian when she’s attempt to date another female. It’s not necessarily a pilgrimage and a station;for some it is more like a journey with multiple destinations. You’re not going to “walk your way” somewhere; if you want, you’re somewhere, and then you’re somewhere else.But the spaces between gay and straight people camped out by many of us are often disrupted.
We must work harder to become a “queer community” and “real” members.We call it greed,confusion,or the search for attention.We can’t even agree on the universal definition of bisexual,so our identities do more to explain than easier to digest,”gay” or “lesbian”.
A silly stereotype is that we are not what we say ,before going out ,gay or straight, bisexual people are in a hell of a personality. This makes bisexual just a phase of harmful cues,with your long-term partner’s gender determining your “real” identity.
But we know it’s not the style of working it does.we don’t want to say that bisexuals will be the right thing you should do.Hey dude! Why would you be attracted to both man and women? And even some of you may like threesome dating,thinking it’s a perfect sexuality experience.Abandon yourself to your sexual drive can just make you degenerate under the desire of indescribable evil.Though I don’t mean to advise you to be abstinent,but you’d better follow my word.
I hope not. Being part of a community means giving the other a bi chat room to grow and change, even if it means that you have settled down as a family. I am bisexual content, and very confident, I will always, but I can not predict the future. If I changed my identity, I hope the two of my colleagues, my queer community and my direct allies will see neither I nor exception rules, but as an understanding of their own people. I'm not going to be erased by the past.